Getting over the Stigma of Medicines for Anxiety/Depression and Obesity

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This is a terrific personal account of starting medications for anxiety/depression and obesity.

NY Times: Aaron Carroll 9/9/23, What Obesity Drugs and Antidepressants Have in Common

An excerpt:

Until a few years ago, I had controlled my depression and anxiety through decades of counseling. I was reluctant to try medications because the medical understanding of them seemed vague…We also can’t explain why some people benefit from S.S.R.I.s and others do not. Because of this, many people still believe those who take them don’t really need them. I also believed that, if I was strong enough, I didn’t need medication…

I was wrong to doubt. It’s had a remarkable effect on my mood, and almost everyone around me noticed the difference. I was more optimistic, friendlier and more engaging. I was forced to reconsider why I had avoided taking the medication for so long. I think it’s because — even though I realize this isn’t true — taking it felt like an admission of failure…

I’ve recently faced a similar scenario with new drugs for obesity. I’ve struggled with my weight for most of my life. I’ve always been overweight, and in the last few years, I’ve slipped into obesity, according to my body mass index. I exercise regularly and carry the weight well, but it bothers me immensely. It especially troubles me because I have a fair amount of self-discipline and eat quite healthfully…

Despite all the advances in science, we don’t know why some people, even when they try desperately, can’t seem to lose weight. Because of that, we often assume it must be a lack of willpower…

These drugs are expensive, but I was determined to see what would happen if I took one. It is hard to explain what life is like on this medication to people who don’t have trouble controlling their weight. I’m not hungry all the time. I’m not thinking about food incessantly. I’m not obsessing about what I wish I could eat and what I can’t. My mental health, and even my temperament, improved so much that my whole family rejoiced…

Before writing this essay, I had told just a few people I’m on the drug. I think it’s because, on some level, I still feel shame. I felt the same when I finally started taking an antidepressant…

Medical treatments should not be dismissed just because we don’t fully grasp their mechanisms; people who use them are not cheating.

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